Day before yesterday i was a bit baffled from my mother's question on "the praxis to visit temple?"if one follows the regime it is called a service to god-acquitting oneself in remembering the divine,unseen force.And if one absolve itself of this duty it would mean a sin on his part or rather incredulousness.
Goin to d temple regularly or on fixed days,barefoot or with 'chappals'watsover the practice we follow,the purpose is to get acquainted to god and to remind him that out of our busy lives we took out few minutes for him without traunting and getting a fairish attendance like good 'devotees'
I make it a habit ,to visit temple atleast once or twice a week,light some 'agarbatties','dhoop' in 'mandir' and recite 'chaaleesa' ,on the contrary my mother have occassional trips to temple,but she is perlplexed at this very fact and inquired if she is committing a disservice in not interacting with him face to face and skips her visit to temple..???
BECAUSE she memorizes the 'supereme force's name daily in her hearts-of-heart and do think of him ample times a day,isin't this enough for god to ensure that her faith and belief in him is unequivocal....
though i had a differnt approach towards it ,,I answered that within the four walls of our house we are bound to be obstucted by some unhealthy,impur and negative particals.moreover the noise in the atmosphere is an inevitable barrier
IN 'mandir' the sound of 'ghantis' ,'the murmers of bhakts',,and 'the sermons of pandits' are links that connect us more with 'bhagwaan' here we all come for a unique purpose ie: prayers and wishes with a belief that god's providence works by law though the meaning of it might not be clear..so i guess my explanation conveyed my meaning without any ambiguity in her mind regarding "a visit to the temple"

DON'T U THINK ITS TRUE??

BARE WORDS BUY NO BARLEY!!
I know this might seem to my readers as literary , but this is the truth of life........
Just for example if we pick our youngsters ,,what do they long for or probably what gives them immense pleasure or happiness apart from the material things,,,i guess its a feeling of getting loved or making love to sumone so very special and unique(extremely raunchy,,sexy,,good looking,,sum1 who is far apart by being classier,,distinctive,,,breeding good code of conduct etc etc...)
our spirits are so very exuberant that can't even catch hold of them in words ..HUFF!!
every other gal/guy crave for dose lovely erotic ecstatic notes, which their boyfriendzz/galfreindzz can share with them,, cheesy remarks ..persuading comments ..proposal lines no matter how futile they are those love bites or perhaps in every different way or the other that might in an ordinary sense fairly brings out tremendous intimate "timely"emotions which mite contain substance or hay who god dam who knows.......
those lovely day outs ,,night outs holding on each other those typical kisses that are sailing from centuries and god knows how long they have to continue to sail taking various shapes and forms...he!! GOSH!!!
m not saying m after these kisses or emotional notions or forming a connivance that feelings are emotionless"aka "khokle emotions"
its jus me ..u everybody boggled on a very simple rather complex issue that in the midst of these emotions and affections love has a very nominal role to play coz love has attainted diabolic approach today ....
forget about kisses of those 1950s..or 80s or current scenario, idea is "love is jus about lust"
its bout marking stamps by physical gestures ,,holding on for the time being your partner till the count completes
LOVE today has mutated as a commodity or possessions like beautiful sandalwood furniture laying bare in the drawing room,,,,,
wen one feels like entertaining guests ////AKA dose "flings" in one's mind ,one step into d drawing room but 1 thing which we 4get is that "at d end of d day one has to sleep in d bedroom"
and this bedroom is what I call is TRUE LOVE
everything or anything before this seems a mirage , ultimately causing disillusionment huff!!!!!!
den why d hell our teens and early 20s spend worthless time in tempting each other with entreaties when its love for money honeys!!!!!
or
love for body!!!!!
if simple,,innocent,,love exits it is bound to take shapes of strong affectionate friendship that calls for care and dining but not for SIZZLING night outs
I believe bare words buy no barley ,,you've gotta be sharp from mind.. smart ..sensible
guys//////gals////"Rome was not built in a day"
jus like that love cannot happen in much ado
it demands sincerity....committment,,,responsibility ..affinity , which I guess cant b expected 4m people. today especially teenagers or aka young generation.......
so till that time its advantageous for us to not to fall in love which is futile n on a serious note get yourself groomed up for an admirable disposition so that one day u get one of d most beautiful and sensual love of your life , whom u can love and get love from.........!!!!!!!!!!